Visiting the Netherlands
I would say you need to go one a minimum of one each of:
art museum (preferably old art/bigger museum but the Escher museum is pretty cool too)
WWII thing (Anne Frank or Corrie ten Boom are great)
old church (it's some solid local history and architecture even if you don't care about the religious bit)
castle (depending where you end up that might be a bit harder)
And try consuming:
fries with satay peanut sauce and mayo, called "patat orloog" which means "French fryfry war"
frikandel speciaal (hot dog-esque sausage with a Dutch dipping sauce and chopped onion)
haring (herring)